Media personality Myrza Sison was, at various points in her career, a supermodel, magazine editor, editorial director, author, podcaster, reality show star and executive coach (Photo: Schild Studios. Illustration: Francesca Gamboa)
Cover Media personality Myrza Sison was, at various points in her career, a supermodel, magazine editor, editorial director, author, podcaster, reality show star and executive coach (Photo: Schild Studios. Illustration: Francesca Gamboa)
Media personality Myrza Sison was, at various points in her career, a supermodel, magazine editor, editorial director, author, podcaster, reality show star and executive coach (Photo: Schild Studios. Illustration: Francesca Gamboa)

Publishing executive, supermodel, podcaster, motivational speaker, author, reality show star, and even computer programmer: she’s been them all

Not many people could claim to have the kind of stellar career that media personality Myrza Sison has had, but fewer still could claim to have had six of them.

In the past few months, Sison has starred in a reality show called Manila Matriarchs and celebrated the third anniversary of her podcast, You Can Do This. She is also about to publish her first book, Join Lang Nang Join.

These accomplishments mark the latest chapter in a long career defined by an incredible talent for reinvention that has led to dramatic and transformative career shifts fit for a movie. Sison famously started out with a background in tech, having trained as a computer programmer (one of the few women in the field in the 1980s) before skyrocketing to fame in the ’90s as one of the Philippines’ top supermodels.

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She was still at the peak of her modelling career when she was named editor-in-chief of Cosmopolitan Philippines, beginning a chapter in the publishing industry that spanned over two decades. She rose through the ranks to become an editorial director overseeing some of the country’s biggest magazine titles.

After stepping back from the magazine industry, Sison once again began a new chapter—now as a podcaster, speaker, executive coach and author. Her podcast, You Can Do This!, is a venue for sharing stories of personal growth and overcoming challenges, aligning with her core philosophy of “join lang nang join” (a phrase that means “just keep joining”), encouraging people to take on new opportunities with confidence and without hesitation.

Here the self-described “shapeshifter” shares the rules for a successful career marked by courage, adaptability and lifelong learning.

1| Reinvention is key to growth

Initially, I was going to say that becoming a model changed the trajectory of my life. Then, I realised that it was deciding to pursue a modelling career in defiance of the stable future in I.T. that had been laid out for me by my parents that was formative.

Of course, modelling opened so many doors for me, but looking back, the realisation that I could actually succeed in transforming myself from a nerdy, introverted computer programmer into a fashion model who walked on runways and under the spotlight was what shaped my path and future career in…shapeshifting! Reinvention later in life became easier because of the knowledge that I had the ability to accomplish whatever I decided to set my mind to.

2| Be open to opportunity, but also be ready for it

Except for pursuing modelling, I didn’t plan any of my other incarnations in advance. I never woke up one day and thought, “I want to be a magazine editor” or “I’m going to start a podcast.” But when opportunities presented themselves, using the “Join lang nang join!” mindset—which is also the title of my book—I said yes to things that scared me or felt outside my comfort zone, trusting that I could figure it out along the way.

I didn’t plan every step, but I always kept an open mind to new opportunities. Each ‘era’ in my career—whether modelling, becoming an editor, or podcasting, motivational speaking, executive coaching, or writing a book—was a mix of following my instincts, sniffing out and seizing opportunities, and adapting to changes as they came. I just went with the flow but made sure I was always ready for the next step and followed the path where my interests and strengths led me.

3| Join lang nang join

“Join lang nang join!” is a mantra I heard frequently as a young model. When an opportunity came our way, whether it was a casting, audition, or a competition, if we were held back by self-doubt, fears, or excuses, our mentors would say “Join lang nang join! What have you got to lose?” and it stuck. It means saying yes to the world and opening your mind to possibilities without overthinking, second-guessing yourself, or letting fear hold you back. Instead of automatically defaulting to Why me?”, as many of us are prone to do when we lack self-belief, it offers the alternative question, Why not?” or Why not me?”

Whether you are trying something new or stepping into unfamiliar territory, “Join lang nang join!” is all about diving in, trusting yourself and trusting that whatever happens, you’ll figure it out as you go along. This mindset has guided and served me well throughout my life and career, and I’ve always wanted to share it with others so that they, too, can “create the extraordinary life that they deserve.”

4| Choose courage over comfort

It’s normal to feel fear, but the only way to grow is to leave your comfort zone. Don’t overthink it, just take that leap. Or break the leap down into baby steps and start small: “One foot in front of the other, until it becomes a thing” is a maxim I have applied every time I had to “gird my loins” for each new aspiration, whether on the runway, the boardroom, or the digital landscape.

If you get too caught up in the potential risks or what could go wrong, you might miss out on incredible opportunities. Focus on what excited you about something in the first place, and use this energy to fuel your fire. And remember that there is no failure, only feedback—which will help you keep improving until you get things right. Also, trust in your ability to adapt to uncertainty and learn as you go along. 

5| Kick self-doubt to the curb

Impostor Syndrome is my biggest enemy. It never goes away, the nagging little voice of my inner critic that says, “But you’re not good/smart/experienced/qualified enough!” [But] it’s reassuring to know that some of the most successful people in the world still have it.

What helped me has been giving myself compassion and the permission to take things one step at a time, surrounding myself with supportive people, and constantly reminding myself that I’ve earned my place in whatever space I’m in.

In one of my motivational reels on Instagram and TikTok, I urge my followers to be inspired not just by successful people they look up to, but also by successful people they feel, fairly or unfairly, superior to in terms of ability or qualifications, but are inferior to in terms of courage in chasing after their dreams and putting themselves out there. What better cure is there for your Impostor Syndrome than to see someone you consider to be a true impostor bravely seizing the opportunity you are too afraid to take?

6| Taking action creates motivation

Something that I learned in executive coaching was how to break down goals into actionable steps and breaking them down further into habits, which I then time-block into my weekly schedule so that it becomes a routine rather than an afterthought.

For example my podcast, You Can Do This!, is a result of what was originally my pandemic survival habit of livestreaming casual interviews with famous friends and topic experts in my network every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday at 5PM. Because I had set up a routine and was accountable to my viewers, whether there were two or 20,000, to show up when I said I would, I just kept going and showing up, with no time or energy to waste on overthinking it or making up excuses to not do it. Before I knew it, I had a hundred episodes!

7| Impact is a good measure of success

I don’t really look back on milestones or compile accolades to define success, so I think my biggest success is the impact that my collective efforts have made on the lives of individuals. Nothing thrills and touches me more than meeting or getting a message from someone who says the direction of their life changed for the better as a result of reading something that I wrote or edited, watching a motivational reel that I created, listening to my podcast, or attending one of my talks or workshops. 


This article is part of Science of Success, Tatler’s leadership series that unpacks the habits, practices and mindsets that help successful individuals achieve their goals.

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